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What can I say about us.... Well, we are virtually newlyweds! We met on a dating site in 2018. I wasn't looking for a Forever Guy at the time and Spencer had previously said to himself he would never marry again. We both came from 20 years plus marriages and had left those relationships only years earlier. We both were on personal journeys to get healthier physically, spiritually, and emotionally. We talked on the phone often and it was not long after our first meet & greet before we became close friends. We met to walk together a couple of times a week, in Watkins Park. We talked about virtually everything during those walks. It was during those walks that both of us started to see in the other just about all the things that each of us valued in an intimate partnership. We say "just about" because no one is perfect and looking for perfection is only setting one up for disappointment. A year later we exchanged our vows in the same park where we got to know each other, beneath the same tree we took our first ‘Usie’.

You can follow us on Facebook in our group called Spirit & Spencer, Ambassadors of Grown and Sexy Love and on YouTube